Hasta Luego

Heading back to the United States

We came to Mexico with a pretty simple plan — hang out, visit family, live cheap, save money, get some projects done. It is hard, traveling and working for someone else, to carve out time for your own work and I had some work I needed to get done.

But sawdust in a hurricane has more permanence than our plans, so nothing we planned to do ended up happening. That’s how these things go. You adjust, tack as it were, and keep sailing. We loved our time in Mexico even if it didn’t turn out at all like we planned.

After I was laid off I went back to doing what I’ve always done, drumming up clients and writing things that made them happy. In my search for new clients I noticed my old friends at WIRED were looking for a full-time writer to do roughly what I’ve done for them on a freelance basis for years.

I applied. I talked to the editors. Some months passed. I talked to more editors. Then all at once I had a job and was hurriedly booking plane tickets back to the United States. While the job is remote, it involves products, shipping physical things to me. If you know anything about customs, you know that’s not something that’s going to work abroad.

We love Mexico, we’ll miss the people, our friends, our family, but this feels like the right thing to do, at the right time too.

The longer, more in-depth projects I’d like to tackle are still there. As I’ve discovered in last eight months, they’re projects that are hard to do without the stability of a regular paycheck. As a freelance writer you are either hustling all the time or starving. I dislike starving. A job with a steady paycheck eliminates the need to spend every free minute hustling up more work. It helps draw a line between work and play, giving you the time and mental space you need to tackle other things in your free time.

The last few days in town our friend Mike from San Francisco and a friend of his stayed with us. We showed them around as best we could while trying to pack up. It was good to get out and walk around town, show other people this wonderful little world we found down here. It also gave us an excuse to get out and visit our favorite haunts for the last time now, which always makes you see them differently.

Then before we really knew it we were stumbling up the street half asleep in pajamas in Elliott’s case, catching a cab to the bus station to catch our pre-dawn ride to Mexico city.

After scarfing a few tacos in the bus station and catching a cab over to the airport, we whisked through security and found ourselves climbing out of the smog, back to the United States.

There are plenty more stories to tell, and I do plan to get caught up eventually. Until then.

4 Comments

Mark Rabo September 02, 2019 at 12:44 a.m.

Hey Scott, Mark here (we originally talked when I found your site when reaching out to writers for work). Glad to see you’re posting through the mailing list. Your life is interesting and not easy to live but also seems meaningful to you and your family. Its great stories and I hope to see more in the future. Photos are excellent too. All the best.

Scott September 02, 2019 at 10:19 a.m.

Mark-

Thanks for stopping by.

I figured I did build the mailing list, might as well use it even if I’ve never gotten my act together to advertise it. I’m going to be using more going forward.

Anyway, glad you like this one. I’ve got a backlog of stories I’m trying to work my way though. Sometimes it’s hard to live and find time to write about living. In the grand scheme of things though, I think it’s a good problem to have.

Jake September 04, 2019 at 2:26 a.m.

It was good to read an update, It’d been awhile. Happy to have you back in the States!

Interesting point, “It helps draw a line between work and play, giving you the time and mental space you need to tackle other things in your free time”. I’m actually trying to do the exact opposite, finally blur the line between work and play. I guess the grass is always greener.

Scott September 05, 2019 at 8:07 a.m.

Jake-

Thanks for the welcome! I will get caught up eventually.

It’s an interesting thing, that work/play. I have not enjoyed blurring the line between work and play as much as I thought I would when I set out to do it. I find attention a difficult thing to divide, especially with regard to very mental work like writing. If I’m thinking about writing something for luxagraf, though I find that an enjoyable thing to give attention to, it takes attention away from, say, playing with the kids around the campsite.

As I’ve gotten older I find that like those hard edges between the things I’m giving attention too, setting aside one before moving on to the next. Maybe I’m getting dumber, less able to concentrate, or something, but I find I like clear divisions. I also find I’m better at writing and being a parent when I have those edge clearly defined to myself. I like it enough that these days I get up early and try to have “work” done by early afternoon and then I have the rest of the day to “play”.

I actually have a whole essay on this, about traveling while working, or working while traveling. I could dig that up and publish it.

Anyway, thanks for stopping by.

Thoughts?

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